It is common knowledge that both men and women test each other. This is a natural thing to do as each want to know if the other truly loves them or not! There are many reasons why men test their women. If you are eager to know if your man is testing you, then look for these signs.
He will test your fidelity
The most important criteria for a man is the fidelity and loyalty of his woman. He will put you to test to see if you are faithful or not. He might do this in different ways – like pretending to go out of town on business and turning up unexpectedly, watch you closely while out on a date to see if you flirt with other men etc.
He will test if you are the jealous type
When a woman is a little jealous it does prove that she loves her man and does not want any other woman anywhere near him! This can be flattering to the guy. But most men abhor women who are over possessive and jealous to a point where she suspects his every move. He might test you to see how jealous you are by giving another woman his attention even though he does not care a fig about her.
He will watch your reactions
If you are a type of person who raves, rants and throws tantrums every time he comes home a little late, then he will know at once that you are not marriage material. He will test you on your ability to keep calm and be mature. The way you behave in a situation like this will tell him a lot about you, so watch out!
He will want to see if you are too controlling!
Men want their freedom to go out with their friends once in a while. He understands that you may not be too happy if he wants to frequent a strip bar, but if you try to keep him away from his fishing etc, he could think that you are too controlling and want to keep away from you.
Is it him or his money?
Most rich men love to put their women to this test. They are afraid that it is their wealth and not them that is keeping her enthralled! They might test her by telling them a story that they are not as rich as they used to be due to some bad investments etc and see how she takes the news.
He would like to test her loyalty
If a man is looking for a life partner, then he will want to test and see if she will want to stay committed to him and the relationship. He needs to know that she will always stand by him in thick and thin. To do this, he will create a situation whereby she will have to prove her loyalty and love for him.
Will she be a good mother?
Don’t be surprised if he makes you babysit his nieces and nephews for an hour! It might just be a test to see if you have the patience, love and understanding a mom would have! This is a test he will put you through to see if you are good marriage material.