How to Know If a Man is Testing You & How to Pass These Deadly Tests - This Will Help You a Lot

How to Know If a Man is Testing You & How to Pass These Deadly Tests – This Will Help You a Lot

It is common knowledge that both men and women test each other. This is a natural thing to do as each want to know if the other truly loves them or not! There are many reasons why men test their women. If you are eager to know if your man is testing you, then look for these signs.

He will test your fidelity

The most important criteria for a man is the fidelity and loyalty of his woman. He will put you to test to see if you are faithful or not. He might do this in different ways – like pretending to go out of town on business and turning up unexpectedly, watch you closely while out on a date to see if you flirt with other men etc.

He will test if you are the jealous type

When a woman is a little jealous it does prove that she loves her man and does not want any other woman anywhere near him! This can be flattering to the guy. But most men abhor women who are over possessive and jealous to a point where she suspects his every move. He might test you to see how jealous you are by giving another woman his attention even though he does not care a fig about her.

He will watch your reactions

If you are a type of person who raves, rants and throws tantrums every time he comes home a little late, then he will know at once that you are not marriage material. He will test you on your ability to keep calm and be mature. The way you behave in a situation like this will tell him a lot about you, so watch out!

He will want to see if you are too controlling!

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Why Men Cheat, My Opinion

Why Men Cheat, My Opinion

Cheating is the worst thing one can do to their spouse. With the exception of physical abuse and torture, or murder.

I personally know that cheating destroys the whole world of the other spouse, and children. When you marry, it is a commitment until death do we part. When a husband cheats on his wife, (or the wife on the husband), they destroy the trust in the marriage, and humiliate the other spouse. This can destroy the love that is the foundation that marriage is built on.

Trust is something that is earned and holds the main function of marriage together along with love, of course. But you can still love someone, yet not trust them. This is difficult, but so often true.

This article is going to focus on why men cheat in my opinion. Statistically, men cheat much more often than women. I personally experienced this in two of my failed marriages.

One marriage my husband cheated on me because he was psycho, and had a hidden life that I was suspicious of, but could not catch him at for many years. He did this because he wanted to, and wanted me and other women. I’m sure the thrill he was catching from it added to his ego. When I did catch him it made the divorce go much more smoothly for me. He was also mentally and physically abusive, and I was very ready to divorce him.

The second time a marriage ended for me from my spouse cheating was a lot harder to deal with. We hadn’t been married long, and he admitted to be in love with a former girlfriend. I knew something was wrong with him, in our marriage, but I had know idea it was, “the other woman.” I tried to work things …

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